/ˈχɛsɛd/ · khesed · Hebrew for covenant love

Covenant love, daily.

A parent-led coach for the whole family, powered by AI.

Shape the daily word, counsel, goals, school context, and family rhythm. The Coach supports; the parent leads.

No card to start Private by default Faith-default, softenable
Parentauthors the word, counsel, goals, and rhythm
Coachpowered by AI, shaped by what you approve
Childreflects, learns, practices, and grows
Memorykeeps covenant moments over time
Children's words stay private. Parents receive progress and wellbeing guidance — not raw journal or Coach text.
How it works

One family rhythm, four simple moves.

Hesed.love is the digital corner of the kitchen table: a calm, scripture-anchored coaching space where parents shape the rails and each family member gets support for the long arc of growing up well.

1

Set the rhythm

Choose the daily word, declarations, family cadence, and the areas your home is focusing on.

2

Add your people

Parents and children get the right surface for their age, consent status, and device access.

3

Shape the Coach

Pin counsel, school context, goals, scriptures, and voice notes so the Coach speaks from home.

4

Watch growth

Track grades, goals, reflections, service, speeches, rhythms, and covenant memories over time.

For parents

Your own Coach for formation, work, marriage, and parenting — plus the tools to shape your child's Coach.

For children with devices

A private Coach for school, character, faith, writing, sport, language, and goals under parent-authored rails.

For children without devices

Audio notes, blessing cards, and parent-mediated content delivered through tools the family already controls.

Why hesed?

The word our home is built on.

Hesed is covenant love — loyal, persistent, generational love that does not quit. It is the posture behind the product and the promise we want families to feel every morning.

The hesed of the LORD never ceases; his mercies never come to an end; they are new every morning; great is your faithfulness. — Lamentations 3:22-23 (adapted)
The voice

Your real voice. Trained once. Spoken daily.

Your child can hear a morning declaration, blessing, or note in your cadence. The voice is opt-in, revocable, and never speaks anything you have not approved.

1Record onceUse a short sample to create your voice model.
2Approve firstThe Coach reads only what you authorize.
3Revoke anytimeThe model is yours. Nobody else uses it.
The seven tracks

The shape of growing up well.

Every child profile can be shaped around seven practical tracks, with Faith & Grace as the foundation underneath them all.

Academics

Curriculum-aware help, grade tracking, course planning, report-card vision.

Speaking & Writing

Speech drafts, practice logs, writing confidence, public-speaking growth.

Citizenship

Service, leadership, reflection, and the story behind commitments.

Athletics

Training, captaincy, discipline, sleep, and healthy ambition.

Languages

Heritage languages, learned languages, prompts, practice rhythms.

Culinary

Recipes, kitchen rhythms, hospitality, and real adult competency.

Character & Grit

Reflection, virtue, courage, resilience, and becoming someone good.

Faith & Grace (foundation)

Today's Word, declarations, promises, prayer, and the covenant frame.

Academic module

A coach that knows the school your child actually attends.

At onboarding, parent and child enter school, curriculum, grade, and goals together. The Coach then answers from inside that real academic context.

1

School context

Curriculum, grade, stream, scholarship targets, and parent priorities.

2

Report cards

Upload a photo. The Coach reads grades and stages them for parent review.

3

Tracker

Watch subjects, terms, trends, and off-path courses in one place.

4

Planning

Course choices and study support are filtered through the family's goals.

Privacy by architecture

We couldn't read your conversations even if we wanted to.

The trust promise is mechanical, not decorative: message content is not stored on our server.

1Your deviceConversations live in your browser or app surface.
2Secure proxyWe forward the request to the model without storing message or response content.
3Minimal logsTimestamps, hashed user IDs, model names, and token counts for usage and billing.

What parents see

For children, parents see goal progress, authored context, and wellbeing flag categories when needed — not private journal entries or raw Coach conversations.

The proxy code is intended to be public after the open-source pass. Until then, we do not link to a repository that is not available yet.

Minors safety

Children are not a feature. They are people we are accountable to.

Hesed.love serves children only inside a parent-led, consent-aware safety frame.

Age tiers13+ self-managed, 8–12 parent-mediated, under 8 audio/card delivery only.
Verified parent consentParent email, payment method, and first device pairing establish consent.
Content safetyAge-tiered prompts and child-safety filters block inappropriate categories.
Wellbeing flagsParents receive category and guided support, not raw child message text.
Private by defaultA child's journal and Coach words remain private unless they explicitly share.
AIClear AI disclosureEvery child onboarding explains the Coach is AI, not a person.
§Regulatory postureCanadian PIPEDA baseline, UK/EU GDPR, US COPPA for users under 13.

See the full Privacy Policy and Minors Safety page for the complete posture.

Pricing

Free forever. Subscribe for advanced features.

Start free with a 30-day trial of full Pro features. Stay on Free after the trial, or subscribe when you want lifelong memory, family accounts, curriculum-aware coaching, voice, and deeper tools. All prices are in Canadian dollars; Stripe converts at checkout.

Free forever
$0 / no card required
  • One adult account
  • 20 Coach messages per day
  • All seven tracks + Faith foundation
  • Personal journal (last 30 days)
  • 30 days of covenant memory
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Solo
$12 CAD / month
  • Lifelong covenant memory — your coach grows with you
  • Unlimited Coach messages
  • Goals & Experiments toolkit
  • Document library + report-card vision
  • Multi-device sync
  • Your Instant Voice Clone (opt-in)
  • Full data export anytime
Family+
$28 CAD / month
  • Everything in Family
  • Up to 5 child sub-accounts
  • 4 voice clone slots
  • Priority support
  • (Coming) "Letter to your child at 18" time-capsule
More than 5 kids?
Email us — hello@hesed.love

Family+ covers up to 5 kids. If you have a larger family, write to us and we'll set you up directly. We don't want plan structure to be a barrier.

Founders

Ayodeji & Olawumi Samuels.

We are a Yoruba-Nigerian family raising our daughters in Calgary, in covenant grace. Hesed.love began at home, as a personal app for our daughter, then became the public version we wished more families could have.

The faith default and covenant tone are not bolted on. They are why the app exists.

Contact: hello@hesed.love

From Charis Coach to Hesed.love

The first version was built for our older daughter as she walked into her final years of high school — a calm, scripture-anchored thinking partner that knew her real report card, teachers, ambition, and family voice.

Read the fuller origin story

It worked. Friends asked for a version for their own families. Hesed.love is what we built when we said yes — the public cousin of Charis Coach, role-aware, tier-aware, suitable for a parent who isn't Ayodeji and a child who isn't ours. We're based in Calgary. The company is Canadian. The product opens carefully, with families we know personally first.

Common questions

Frequently asked.

What does a Family plan actually look like day-to-day?

Each parent has their own Coach. Each child you add gets their own private Coach too — with the daily word, notes, and counsel you author flowing into their context. They write in their journal; you don't see their words. If something signals real distress, you get a category flag (not the words). Under-13 kids get parent-mediated audio + cards instead of a chat surface. See the full visual walkthrough →

Can both parents use Hesed.love together?

Yes — and the design is more than just shared access. When you invite your spouse from the Family page, you both see the same children and co-author the same daily word, notes, counsel pinned to tracks, and goals. The kids' coach knows it has both of you in its corner. The act of co-authoring becomes a small ritual that strengthens marriage as it shapes the children — which is the third promise we make: a way for you and your spouse to raise them as one. The invite is always optional. Single-parent families are equally first-class — nothing in the product implies anything is missing.

Is Hesed.love only for Christians?

The product is faith-default Christian — scripture, declarations, covenant tone are woven through. Families of any faith or none can use it; non-Christian families can soften the Faith & Grace foundation in settings. We won't ask you to compromise on what your home believes. But we're not pretending to be religion-neutral, either.

Can my child talk to the AI directly?

Yes, with verifiable parental consent. Children aged 13+ have self-managed accounts with full Coach access. Children aged 8–12 have parent-mediated accounts with stricter content filters. Children under 8 receive content from their parents through Hesed.love but do not have a Coach of their own. The full safety posture is on our Minors Safety page.

Do you read my conversations?

No, and we couldn't if we wanted to. Our proxy server logs only timestamps, hashed user IDs, and token counts — never message bodies or response bodies. Your conversations live in your browser or on your device. The proxy code will be public on GitHub after Phase 1 so you can verify the claim.

How does cancellation work?

Cancel from Settings any time. You keep access through the end of the paid period you've already paid for. No partial-period refunds. You can re-subscribe whenever you like — your account and history wait for you. Full terms on our Refund & Cancellation page.

What countries are you in?

At Phase 1 launch: Canada, the US, the UK, Australia, Nigeria, South Africa, Ghana — meaning we have pre-built curriculum knowledge for those countries' school systems. Hesed.love works elsewhere too; the academic module just leans more on web-fetched curriculum data for now. We'll add deeper coverage as Phase 1 cohorts show us where families are.

What happens to my data if I cancel?

You can export your full account data from Settings before cancelling. After cancellation, your account is paused for 90 days (so you can resubscribe and pick up where you left off), then permanently deleted unless you request immediate deletion in writing.

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"From our home to yours, with hesed."

— Ayodeji & Olawumi